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		<title>How To Center Yourself When Things Get Ugly</title>
		<link>http://www.noonesthebitch.com/2012/02/15/how-to-center-yourself-when-things-get-ugly/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 15 Feb 2012 20:11:08 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Jenna</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Emotional First Aid]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[It’s hard to remain calm when you’re faced with threats of court, false accusations, bogus restraining orders and the defended ego of others. When you find yourself in the alternative universe of someone else’s truth , take a moment and remind yourself of who you are. The you beneath the constant state of defense, stress,... <a href="http://www.noonesthebitch.com/2012/02/15/how-to-center-yourself-when-things-get-ugly/"> [Continue Reading]</a>]]></description>
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		<title>High Heels in the Dung Pasture (or Further Adventures in Taking Responsibility)</title>
		<link>http://www.noonesthebitch.com/2009/11/24/high-heels-in-the-dung-pasture-or-further-adventures-in-taking-responsibility/</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 24 Nov 2009 15:22:03 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Jennifer</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[So I have a moment at the end of the Dr. Phil Show that we did a few weeks ago that I’m hoping no one will see, but that my ex-husband David assures me is the one moment they will probably be sure to include (air date: Dec. 1). Great&#8230; Just what I wanted to... <a href="http://www.noonesthebitch.com/2009/11/24/high-heels-in-the-dung-pasture-or-further-adventures-in-taking-responsibility/"> [Continue Reading]</a>]]></description>
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		<title>StoryCorps is looking for mom/stepmom teams to interview!</title>
		<link>http://www.noonesthebitch.com/2009/08/12/storycorps-is-looking-for-momstepmom-teams-to-interview/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 12 Aug 2009 18:16:46 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Jennifer</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Wouldn&#39;t it be helpful to have more stories of ex-wives and stepmoms out there, telling the truth about their lives, letting us take a peek inside? Well maybe YOU can tell your story&#8230; or eventually just hear some! I just got this very cool invitation from Eve Claxton of StoryCorps (they do the up-close, real-life... <a href="http://www.noonesthebitch.com/2009/08/12/storycorps-is-looking-for-momstepmom-teams-to-interview/"> [Continue Reading]</a>]]></description>
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		<title>Erasing the enemy &#8211; Part Two</title>
		<link>http://www.noonesthebitch.com/2009/06/10/erasing-the-enemy-part-two/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 10 Jun 2009 15:54:29 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Jennifer</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Anatomy.of.Peace]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[(If you missed Part One, it&#8217;s here.) The stepmother clicked the button to end the call before it started ringing. Then she took a deep breath and began to dial again. She stopped halfway, remembering some of the worst verbal insults that had made their way back to her, some of the angry and hateful... <a href="http://www.noonesthebitch.com/2009/06/10/erasing-the-enemy-part-two/"> [Continue Reading]</a>]]></description>
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		<title>Erasing the Enemy &#8211; Part One</title>
		<link>http://www.noonesthebitch.com/2009/06/08/erasing-the-enemy-part-one/</link>
		<comments>http://www.noonesthebitch.com/2009/06/08/erasing-the-enemy-part-one/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Mon, 08 Jun 2009 16:49:31 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Jennifer</dc:creator>
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://studio.steelmedia.ca/bitch/?p=47</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[Once upon a time, there was a mom and stepmom, stuck with each other in their lives, like a splinter in their thumb that couldn&#8217;t be removed. Thumbs get used a lot, so this was a bad thing, this constant, wincing reminder of the splinter as they went about their days. It was a pretty... <a href="http://www.noonesthebitch.com/2009/06/08/erasing-the-enemy-part-one/"> [Continue Reading]</a>]]></description>
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		<title>Always a choice&#8230;.</title>
		<link>http://www.noonesthebitch.com/2009/05/18/always-a-choice/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 18 May 2009 19:21:21 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Jennifer</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I&#8217;m reading a fascinating book that I wish EVERYONE could read about the nature of conflict between people called, &#8220;The Anatomy of Peace: Resolving the Heart with Conflict&#8221; by The Arbinger Institute. I was prompted to seek out an in-depth analysis of the nature of tough problems between stepmoms and moms because, I must admit,... <a href="http://www.noonesthebitch.com/2009/05/18/always-a-choice/"> [Continue Reading]</a>]]></description>
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		<title>Digging up the dirt to plant flowers</title>
		<link>http://www.noonesthebitch.com/2009/05/01/digging-up-the-dirt-to-plant-flowers/</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 01 May 2009 14:02:51 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Jennifer</dc:creator>
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://studio.steelmedia.ca/bitch/?p=69</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[One of the weirdest things I&#8217;ve ever had to do was something I did while I was writing this book on creating mother/stepmother harmony last year. As some of you may or may not know, Carol&#8217;s an artist (a very busy, successful one). We collaborated on the outline and topics for the book. And I... <a href="http://www.noonesthebitch.com/2009/05/01/digging-up-the-dirt-to-plant-flowers/"> [Continue Reading]</a>]]></description>
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		<title>Calling all DC-area moms and stepmoms that get along!</title>
		<link>http://www.noonesthebitch.com/2009/04/15/calling-all-dc-area-moms-and-stepmoms-that-get-along/</link>
		<comments>http://www.noonesthebitch.com/2009/04/15/calling-all-dc-area-moms-and-stepmoms-that-get-along/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Wed, 15 Apr 2009 13:51:59 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Jennifer</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Woohoo! The illustrious Washington Post is interested in covering our upcoming book, &#34;No One&#39;s the Bitch: A Ten-Step Plan for Mothers and Stepmothers&#34; (Globe Pequot, 2009), due out May 5th. They&#39;re looking to interview a mom and stepmom that actually have a fairly cooperative relationship (not perfect, just&#8230; workable!). Do you know of anyone who... <a href="http://www.noonesthebitch.com/2009/04/15/calling-all-dc-area-moms-and-stepmoms-that-get-along/"> [Continue Reading]</a>]]></description>
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		<title>One big, weird, happy family&#8230;</title>
		<link>http://www.noonesthebitch.com/2009/03/30/one-big-weird-happy-family/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 30 Mar 2009 16:25:20 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Jennifer</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Taking Stock]]></category>
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://studio.steelmedia.ca/bitch/?p=78</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[What are some examples of celebrities that have gotten divorced, remarried, and then created a brand new extended family that works? Here&#39;s what Rumer Willis, daughter of actors Bruce Willis and Demi Moore, said about her father and step-father Ashton Kutcher in Us Magazine&#8230; &#34;We all have so much fun together. I’m so lucky,&#34; she... <a href="http://www.noonesthebitch.com/2009/03/30/one-big-weird-happy-family/"> [Continue Reading]</a>]]></description>
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		<title>Monday Maybe: First, do no harm&#8230;</title>
		<link>http://www.noonesthebitch.com/2009/03/16/monday-maybe-first-do-no-harm/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 16 Mar 2009 13:09:08 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Jennifer</dc:creator>
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://studio.steelmedia.ca/bitch/?p=80</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[(Here&#8217;s a little experiment to try this week&#8230;.) Be kind, for everyone you meet is fighting a hard battle. -Philo If you&#8217;re wanting to create a friendlier relationship with the mom or stepmom and aren&#8217;t sure where to start, first, consider doing something simple and stopping any subtly combative behavior. Is your voice tight when... <a href="http://www.noonesthebitch.com/2009/03/16/monday-maybe-first-do-no-harm/"> [Continue Reading]</a>]]></description>
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		<title>Good, bad, it&#039;s always changing&#8230;</title>
		<link>http://www.noonesthebitch.com/2009/03/10/good-bad-its-always-changing/</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 10 Mar 2009 17:53:53 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Jennifer</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Gratitude has been on my mind a lot lately this past week. Two Sundays ago, there was a large fire (1200 acres) out in the nearby town where David and Carol (my ex and the girls&#39; stepmom) recently moved. It was only a few miles from their new house and we spent some harrowing moments... <a href="http://www.noonesthebitch.com/2009/03/10/good-bad-its-always-changing/"> [Continue Reading]</a>]]></description>
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		<title>Free book introduction!</title>
		<link>http://www.noonesthebitch.com/2009/02/13/free-book-introduction/</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 13 Feb 2009 14:24:29 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Jennifer</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Check out the Introduction to our book! It&#39;s available for download as a PDF here. You&#39;re also invited to join us on our wild goose chase as we attempt to get in touch with such folks as Demi Moore and Will Smith for a book endorsement. (The clock is ticking! We&#39;re running out of time!)!... <a href="http://www.noonesthebitch.com/2009/02/13/free-book-introduction/"> [Continue Reading]</a>]]></description>
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		<title>Slow family living &#8212; pressing the reset button</title>
		<link>http://www.noonesthebitch.com/2009/02/11/slow-family-living-pressing-the-reset-button/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 11 Feb 2009 16:28:37 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Jennifer</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[It&#39;s all too easy to focus on the problems in your family, whether you&#39;re a stepmom unhappy with the bio-mom, a single mom who wishes the stepmom wasn&#39;t in the picture, or an ex-wife who&#39;s remarried and still struggling with the reality of &#34;two&#34; families. But it&#39;s all still a matter of focus&#8230; Where are... <a href="http://www.noonesthebitch.com/2009/02/11/slow-family-living-pressing-the-reset-button/"> [Continue Reading]</a>]]></description>
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		<title>Watch the characterization</title>
		<link>http://www.noonesthebitch.com/2009/01/26/watch-the-characterization/</link>
		<comments>http://www.noonesthebitch.com/2009/01/26/watch-the-characterization/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Mon, 26 Jan 2009 13:09:46 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Jennifer</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Great Links]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[blog]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[divorce]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Happiness.Project]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[mom]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[No One's the Bitch]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[Here&#39;s a thought-provoking idea from a blog (and newsletter) I really like called The Happiness Project. Are you jumping the gun and consistently characterizing the actions of the mom or stepmom in a negative light, before you really know her true intentions? Worth a thought!]]></description>
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		<title>The Stepfamily Letter Project</title>
		<link>http://www.noonesthebitch.com/2009/01/16/the-stepfamily-letter-project/</link>
		<comments>http://www.noonesthebitch.com/2009/01/16/the-stepfamily-letter-project/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Fri, 16 Jan 2009 21:10:17 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Jennifer</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Great Links]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[anonymous]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[blog]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[letters]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[mother]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[No One's the Bitch]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[stepchildren]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[stepfamily]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Stepfamily.Letter.Project]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[stepkids]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[stepmother]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://studio.steelmedia.ca/bitch/?p=92</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[Wow, I have a great new site to recommend and it makes me wonder why no one thought of this sooner! Please stop by The Stepfamily Letter Project and read a few anonymous letters &#8212; kinda like a longer version of Found, or Postsecret. They&#39;re written by stepkids, moms, husbands, and of course, stepmoms, and... <a href="http://www.noonesthebitch.com/2009/01/16/the-stepfamily-letter-project/"> [Continue Reading]</a>]]></description>
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		<title>What if you&#039;ve been betrayed?</title>
		<link>http://www.noonesthebitch.com/2009/01/12/what-if-youve-been-betrayed/</link>
		<comments>http://www.noonesthebitch.com/2009/01/12/what-if-youve-been-betrayed/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Mon, 12 Jan 2009 21:08:37 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Jennifer</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[conflict resolution]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[betrayal]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[blog]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[conflict]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[divorce]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[mother]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[No One's the Bitch]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[remarriage]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[stepchildren]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[stepfamily]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[stepmother]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://studio.steelmedia.ca/bitch/?p=93</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[So what if you extended yourself with the mom or stepmom and it went poorly? What if you reached out to her and she screwed you? Or you were just going about your business when you suddenly realized, Whoa! That is totally unfair? Happens to all of us. Stepmom/mom scenarios are rife with little exploded... <a href="http://www.noonesthebitch.com/2009/01/12/what-if-youve-been-betrayed/"> [Continue Reading]</a>]]></description>
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		<title>What&#039;s your one word for the new year?</title>
		<link>http://www.noonesthebitch.com/2008/12/29/whats-your-one-word-for-the-new-year/</link>
		<comments>http://www.noonesthebitch.com/2008/12/29/whats-your-one-word-for-the-new-year/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Mon, 29 Dec 2008 15:59:20 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Jennifer</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Self-Care]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[blog]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[divorce]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[family]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[mother]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[New.Year]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[No One's the Bitch]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[resolutions]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[stepchildren]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[stepfamily]]></category>
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://studio.steelmedia.ca/bitch/?p=94</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[For the past two years, instead of making a bunch of New Year&#39;s resolutions that stress me out and make me feel guilty, I&#39;ve simply picked one, single word as my focus for the new year. Previously, I&#39;ve used &#34;support&#34; and this past year, it was &#34;ease.&#34; I can happily say I found surprising sources... <a href="http://www.noonesthebitch.com/2008/12/29/whats-your-one-word-for-the-new-year/"> [Continue Reading]</a>]]></description>
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		<title>The right names for the right meaning&#8230;</title>
		<link>http://www.noonesthebitch.com/2008/12/27/the-right-names-for-the-right-meaning/</link>
		<comments>http://www.noonesthebitch.com/2008/12/27/the-right-names-for-the-right-meaning/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Sat, 27 Dec 2008 14:29:01 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Jennifer</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Uncategorized]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[divorce]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[ex-wife]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Jumping.off.point.blog]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[mom]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[No One's the Bitch]]></category>
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://studio.steelmedia.ca/bitch/?p=95</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[I just discovered the blog of a dear friend, Joel &#8212; one of my favorite people to climb with. I had no idea he was such a talented, closet scribbler! Here&#39;s a link to a thought-provoking post about how the names we have for each other in these newfangled family relationships don&#39;t really do justice... <a href="http://www.noonesthebitch.com/2008/12/27/the-right-names-for-the-right-meaning/"> [Continue Reading]</a>]]></description>
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		<title>Blog round-up/shutdown</title>
		<link>http://www.noonesthebitch.com/2008/10/13/blog-round-upshutdown/</link>
		<comments>http://www.noonesthebitch.com/2008/10/13/blog-round-upshutdown/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Mon, 13 Oct 2008 20:56:19 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Jennifer</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Communication]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[blog]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[divorce]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[ex-wife]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[No One's the Bitch]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[privacy]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[stepfamily]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[stepmother]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Stepmother's.Milk]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://studio.steelmedia.ca/bitch/?p=104</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[A weird thing happened on my way to a new post&#8230;. I thought I&#39;d peruse a few blogs on our link list and see what folks have been up to so I could point readers in an interesting direction (kind of the lazy way to generate content, but sometimes, that&#39;s all you got). My first... <a href="http://www.noonesthebitch.com/2008/10/13/blog-round-upshutdown/"> [Continue Reading]</a>]]></description>
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