Here's a link to a thought-provoking post about how the names we have for each other in these newfangled family relationships don't really do justice to what's in our hearts. An excerpt:
the lack of shared genes. I'm going to throw "step-up father" out there
Then we need one for a father whose role in raising the child ended at conception. I'm going to throw out "DNA Dad".
What about all the stepmoms out there who fiercely love their stepkids? What about the mother who can't be assumed to have that stereotypical, unconditional maternal devotion? What about all the "hands-off" dads?
Food for thought….
Click here to read the rest of "Family is complicated, family language doubly so."
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